You have done the work: you are the Ethical Man. Now, it's time to build the trajectory. The first four dates are not random meetings; they are structured stages designed to test compatibility, build intimacy, and confirm the long-term viability of the connection. This manual provides the actionable roadmap—from the moment you secure the first date to the physical and emotional escalation of Date Four. We detail the dress, the timing, the specific lines, and the unwavering Autonomy and Competence that secure her investment, transforming attraction into a secure,

growing relationship. This is how you lead the process with integrity and intent.